The Influence of IVF Abortion on Marital Relationship
IVF abortion means that the embryo is put into the mother's uterus after in vitro fertilization, but abortion occurs after embryo transfer. This may be an amazing and painful experience for the couple, which will also have an impact on their relationship. This article will elaborate on the impact of IVF on the relationship between husband and wife from four aspects of psychology, emotion, society and physiology.
Psychological aspects
IVF abortion may have a negative impact on the mental health of couples. After a miscarriage, couples generally feel depressed, sad, angry, disappointed and other negative emotions. They may doubt their ability and feel discouraged about their future fertility hopes. These negative emotions may lead to communication difficulties between couples, increase the possibility of conflicts and quarrels, and further affect their emotional ties.
In addition, abortion may also bring stress and anxiety to couples. They may worry about the result of trying IVF again, worry about their health, and even doubt whether they are suitable to be parents. Long term psychological pressure and anxiety may lead to emotional tension between couples and increase mutual distrust.
Relatively speaking, couples have different coping styles. Some people may be more likely to express their emotions and seek support and comfort, while others are more inclined to internalize emotions. This different coping style may also lead to contradictions and estrangement between couples.
Emotional aspects
IVF abortion has a profound impact on the emotional relationship between couples. Abortion may break the common expectations between husband and wife about childbearing, resulting in deviation of each other's emotional feelings. Some couples may accuse each other that the other's problems caused the abortion. This kind of mutual criticism may aggravate the tension and conflict between husband and wife, and affect their feelings.
On the other hand, the abortion of IVF may also strengthen the unity between husband and wife. After miscarriage, couples may cherish each other's support and understanding more and further strengthen their feelings. They may face the grief of miscarriage together, support each other, and establish a stronger marital relationship.
Social aspects
IVF abortion may also have an impact on the role of couples in society. They may feel uncomfortable and embarrassed in the face of concerns and inquiries from relatives and friends. Although these concerns are well intentioned, they may further remind couples of the pain of abortion and bring them psychological pressure.
In addition, under some social and cultural backgrounds, couples who experience IVF may face pressure and judgment from family, friends and society. They may feel wrongly blamed for their failure to successfully complete the birth. This kind of external pressure may have a further negative impact on the relationship between husband and wife.
Physiological aspects
IVF abortion may also have an impact on the physical health of couples. One of the couples may need to receive abortion surgery or other treatment, which may lead to physical discomfort and the impact of the recovery period. Physical discomfort may affect the couple's psychological state and emotional connection, further affecting their marital relationship.
In addition, abortion may make couples feel powerless and limited. They may doubt their physical ability and feel uneasy about their fertility. This suspicion may lead to tension and anxiety between husband and wife, and hinder the whole process of childbirth.
summary
IVF abortion has many effects on the relationship between husband and wife. Psychologically, couples may experience negative emotions such as depression, anxiety and distrust. Emotionally, the understanding and unity between husband and wife may be strengthened or broken. In terms of society, couples may face discomfort and judgment from relatives, friends and society. Physiologically, abortion may have a negative impact on the couple's health. Therefore, when couples experience IVF abortion, they need to support and understand each other, seek professional help, and jointly face the challenges of abortion.
