Causes of IVF Divorce
IVF is a method to help infertile couples achieve fertility through in vitro fertilization and assisted reproductive technology. However, in some special cases, the birth of IVF has led to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, leading to divorce. This article will elaborate on the reasons for IVF divorce from four aspects: psychological pressure, family responsibility, economic pressure and moral entanglement.
Psychological pressure
The psychological pressure in the process of IVF has a great impact on the relationship between husband and wife. First of all, infertile couples have experienced a long period of infertility treatment, while the IVF process is even longer and full of challenges. This long-term psychological pressure may lead to the increase of contradictions and conflicts between couples. At the same time, no matter whether IVF is successful or not, both husband and wife are facing great anxiety and loss. When one of the couples is depressed about the failure of IVF, the other may not be able to provide enough comfort and support, thus aggravating the conflict between the husband and wife.
Considering the psychological pressure of IVF, couples need to fully communicate and understand each other's expectations and concerns before starting treatment, and actively seek psychological counseling support to reduce the tension between couples.
Family responsibilities
The problem of IVF is not only the pressure of individual couples, but also the responsibility of the whole family. Once the IVF baby is born, the husband and wife need to assume the responsibility as parents, which includes taking care of the material and emotional needs of the baby. However, for some couples, they may have neglected this fact in the process of IVF, resulting in increased psychological pressure after the birth of the baby.
Couples should clearly and fully discuss their roles and responsibilities during IVF, and make corresponding plans. Sharing family responsibilities and tasks is an important factor in maintaining the stability and happiness of the husband wife relationship.
Economic pressure
Test tube baby is an expensive medical process, which may cause heavy economic pressure for couples with financial difficulties. From the process of in vitro fertilization to the pregnancy and daily support of infants, couples need to bear a lot of medical expenses and daily expenses. Due to the decline of economic burden and quality of life, some couples may choose to divorce because they cannot bear the extra financial pressure.
Before IVF, couples should fully evaluate their financial ability and make reasonable financial plans. In the process of IVF, it is also an option to actively seek financial assistance from hospitals and other organizations.
Moral entanglement
In the process of IVF, some moral disputes are often involved. For example, when choosing embryo screening and gender selection, couples may quarrel and contradict because of different ideas and values. This kind of moral entanglement may lead to differences and alienation between husband and wife, and eventually lead to divorce.
In order to avoid the impact of moral disputes on the relationship between husband and wife, husband and wife should fully communicate in advance and respect each other's opinions. Use the psychological counseling services provided by the hospital to help couples solve moral disputes together.
summary
The reasons for IVF divorce can be attributed to psychological pressure, family responsibilities, economic pressure and moral disputes. Couples should fully communicate and understand each other's expectations and concerns before starting IVF treatment, and share family responsibilities and tasks. At the same time, reasonably assess the economic capacity and formulate financial plans to seek financial assistance. Most importantly, couples should respect each other's opinions, actively resolve moral disputes, and seek psychological counseling support in the process of IVF.
