How does the loss of an only mother who gave birth to a very old child affect children
With the development of society and the progress of medical technology, more and more women choose late marriage and late childbirth. However, for mothers who have given birth at a very old age, due to differences in physical conditions and physiological characteristics, children may face some special challenges during their growth. Among them, the mother who lost her only child suffered the pain of losing her own child, which had a huge and lasting impact on them.
Physical health and physiological effects
Over age childbirth may bring certain risks to the mother's physical health and physiological conditions. After a long period of pregnancy and childbirth, the mother's body may become weak and fragile. This state may affect their daily life and work ability, and increase their physical discomfort. In addition, some mothers who have given birth at a very old age may face higher risk of disease, such as hypertension, diabetes, etc. These diseases will also have an indirect impact on their children.
In addition, there are also some physiological problems for mothers who have given birth at an extremely old age. With the growth of age, women's ovarian function will gradually decline, and the quality and quantity of eggs will also decrease. This may lead to some fetal malformations and congenital diseases. Therefore, children born at an extremely old age may face more health risks and developmental obstacles.
In addition, due to the delay of childbearing age, mothers who have given birth at an extremely old age may miss the golden age of their children's growth and companionship. When the child needs parent-child relationship and maternal love, the mother may have difficulty in practicing or other reasons can not devote herself to the child rearing. This may have a negative impact on children's psychological and emotional development.
Psychological pressure and emotional dilemma
The only mother who gave birth to a very old child has experienced the pain and sadness of losing her own child. No matter because of the premature birth, illness or other reasons of the child, the mother who lost her only child is facing enormous psychological pressure and emotional dilemma. They may feel guilty and self reproach, and feel that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities as mothers and are unable to give their children enough love and care.
A mother who has lost her only child may also fall into deep sorrow, unable to get out of the trauma of losing her child. They may fall into self isolation and silence for a long time, and lose interest in external communication and social activities. In this case, they may need to seek the help of a psychologist or professional organization to alleviate their psychological distress.
On the other hand, a lost mother may feel hopeless and confused about the future. It may be impossible to conceive and have children after a certain age, and they may worry about their family and future life. This uncertainty and anxiety may bring more psychological burden and emotional distress.
Family relations and social assistance
The situation of losing an only mother who has given birth at an extremely old age will also have a certain impact on family relations. Parents may have friction and disharmony due to the loss of their children. Sadness and psychological pressure may lead to the lack of communication and understanding between family members and increase the tension and contradiction in family relations.
However, at the same time, the support and understanding of family members is also an important factor for the lost mother to get out of the predicament. The father may play the role of supporter to encourage and help the lost mother out of the shadow. The support of other relatives, friends, communities and professional institutions is also the key to the reconstruction of self-confidence and self-identity of mothers who lost their independence.
summary
The only mother who has given birth at a very old age is facing health and physiological risks, and may miss the golden age of child growth. At the same time, they also bear enormous psychological pressure and emotional difficulties, and need support from family relations and social assistance. Therefore, we should pay attention to mothers who have given birth at an extremely old age, provide psychological support and social help, help them get out of the shadow of losing children, and find the fun and meaning of life again.
