The Influence of Older Childbearing on Couple's Emotion
With the progress of society and the improvement of people's living standards, more and more couples choose to postpone childbearing, leading to the phenomenon of elderly childbearing more and more common. However, whether the elderly childbearing will affect the relationship between husband and wife has become a concern. This article will discuss this issue in detail from four aspects: physical and mental health, family pressure, responsibility and communication.
Physical and mental health
The elderly childbearing may have some impact on the physical and mental health of couples. Physically, women's fertility will decline with age, and they are more likely to face complications during pregnancy. This will bring physical pressure and anxiety to both husband and wife, and even sometimes cause physical discomfort. Psychologically, giving birth at an advanced age will also bring anxiety and anxiety to couples, worrying about whether they can successfully conceive and give birth to healthy children. These physical and mental burdens may have a certain impact on the couple's feelings.
However, not every couple will suffer from physical and mental health problems. Some couples relieve stress through self-regulation, companionship and mutual support, and can maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Family pressure
Older childbearing needs more economic and energy resources. As the childbearing age increases, couples need to face a greater economic burden, including medical expenses, child education costs, etc. At the same time, childcare requires a lot of time and energy, which has an impact on the work and life of couples and increases the pressure between couples.
However, couples can relieve family pressure through active communication and reasonable planning. They can discuss and share housework together, and find suitable nurseries or family members to help take care of children. In this way, couples can better balance work and family, and maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
Responsibility
Older childbearing will add more responsibility to couples. Couples need more energy and time to take care of their children's growth, education and development. The increase of these responsibilities may make couples feel tired and stressed, leading to tension between couples.
However, couples can cope with the burden of responsibility through equality and division of labor. They can jointly formulate and share parenting tasks, support and encourage each other. At the same time, couples can also seek external help, such as the support of relatives and friends and the use of community resources, to reduce the burden of responsibility.
Communication
Communication between husband and wife is an important factor to maintain a stable family relationship. Older childbearing may cause communication barriers between couples. Women may face some physical discomfort during pregnancy and need the care and care of husband and wife. At the same time, for some couples, the issues of preparation for childbirth and education of children may cause differences of opinion.
However, couples can solve these problems by being frank and good at communication. They can listen to each other's needs and opinions, respect each other's decisions, and discuss solutions together. Through effective communication, couples can better understand each other's expectations and needs, so as to establish a stable and harmonious family relationship.
summary
The influence of elderly childbearing on the feelings of husband and wife depends on the physical and mental health, family pressure, responsibility burden, communication and other factors of the couple. Although the elderly childbearing may bring some troubles to the couple, the couple can maintain a stable family relationship through active response and joint efforts. By caring, understanding and supporting each other, couples can overcome difficulties together and build a happy family.
