The Influence of Older Childbearing on Children's Emotional Needs
Elderly childbearing refers to the phenomenon that women are pregnant and have children when they are over 35 years old. With the development of society and the change of people's ideas, more and more women choose to be pregnant at an advanced age, but this kind of childbearing mode may have an impact on the emotional needs of children. This is described from four aspects below.
1. Age differences lead to differences in educational methods
Parents may treat their children differently as they grow older. Older parents may be more demanding of their children and tend to pay attention to their children's learning and achievements. This may lead to children's lack of care and understanding in emotion, and feel unable to have emotional resonance with their parents. Young parents will pay more attention to their children's independent development and emotional communication, and can better meet their children's emotional needs.
At this time, parents who give birth at an advanced age need to be aware of the impact of age on the way of education and try to adjust their attitudes. They can communicate with children more, actively understand their children's needs, and give appropriate attention and support to establish a good parent-child relationship.
2. Physical health affects parent-child interaction
Parents who give birth at an advanced age often cannot compare with young parents physically, such as decreased physical activity ability and insufficient energy. This may affect their parent-child interaction with their children. The inability to accompany children to participate in various activities, such as outdoor sports and games, may lead to emotional loss and loneliness.
In order to meet the emotional needs of children, parents of older children can interact with their children through other ways, such as reading, telling stories, accompanying and chatting, etc. Although they cannot be as energetic as young parents, parents can cultivate their children's emotional cognition through these interactive ways and establish a deep parent-child relationship.
3. Impact of narrow social circle on children
Parents who give birth at an advanced age may have a narrow circle of friends due to age differences. This will also affect children's social skills and needs. Children may lack opportunities to get along with their peers and establish healthy social relationships. At the same time, children's communication between school and classmates may also be limited by their parents' age.
In order to meet the children's social needs, parents who have given birth at an advanced age can actively participate in activities organized by the community or school to provide more opportunities for children to contact with peers. In addition, families can also create more social environments and let children gain more social experience by organizing gatherings of relatives and friends.
4. Influence of psychological maturity on parent-child relationship
Older parents usually have higher psychological maturity and are more rational in dealing with parent-child relationship. This is a positive impact on children's emotional needs, because parents can better guide children as adults. At the same time, mature parents can better master emotions and avoid excessive dependence or interference when dealing with parent-child relationships.
By being aware of their own psychological maturity advantages, parents of older children can better meet their children's emotional needs. They can use a stable and mature attitude to build trust with their children, help them solve their emotional confusion, and let children get full support and development in the emotional field.
Summary
Older childbearing has a certain impact on children's emotional needs. By adjusting education methods, appropriate parent-child interaction, expanding social circle and taking advantage of psychological maturity, parents of older children can better meet their children's emotional needs and establish a stable parent-child relationship. Although there are some challenges in age differences, parents who give birth at an advanced age can also become excellent lovers as long as they have the correct attitude and methods.
